Be Up to The Job

Worry Worry, in its simplest form, is projected fear. In other words, we’re thinking about a future event and applying a negative outcome. It could be work related, or just as easily, it could be something in our private life. There might be a particular task we need to undertake at work, and feel unsure [...]

Effective Leadership

There are of course important and necessary formulas for effective leadership The most respected leaders are those who set the best examples. You’ll forgive me for sounding a little cliched when I say: 'the most effective and respected leaders, are those who’re never likely to ask someone to do something, they wouldn’t be prepared to [...]

For the Love of You

"Gamesmanship skills are important if we're to make it through life in an easy and comfortable way. Understand the games of others better." You meet someone for the first time and you think: ‘Um…. not sure I like this person.’ They may seem a little conceited or arrogant or sanctimonious, or whatever. So you decide [...]

One-upmanship, For the Love of You (part 2)

We’re so busy aren’t we? So much going on, we’ve barely got time for each other. And it’s all got so damn competitive hasn’t it? Back-biting, backstabbing, bitching, scraping, scheming, gossiping, it’s all going on, and these are just some of the things we’re conscious of, never mind the subtle stuff we barely recognise. Is [...]