Once you are calm, through following the lessons learnt on your course, begin to ask this question only considering its implications
Childhood for many is an extremely difficult period, and as such, is often best forgotten. The problem being, if we forget the past, we’re likely to repeat it.
I have it on good authority that Orc's think we humans are all ugly bastards! Get my point?
Awareness awards us the power to read between the lines. When we're seeking love and attention from other adults we're vulnerable and open to abuse. Be aware of this and ask: Am I taking the ultimate responsibility of loving me? Now you are grown, there is no one else, who can do this for you.