Awareness awards us the power to read between the lines. When we're seeking love and attention from other adults we're vulnerable and open to abuse. Be aware of this and ask: Am I taking the ultimate responsibility of loving me? Now you are grown, there is no one else, who can do this for you.
When we take a moment to consider it, many, many occupations are of a giving nature, and that’s something beautiful to recognise about human beings.
Does the universe morn these dead, early attempts? No, the universe expands, grows and thrives, as a result of these early failures.
Be grateful to your mind for showing you the way, and be grateful to your body, for taking you there.